Today I remembered when you told me that being a people pleaser was a bad trait to have.
And I just agreed with you because you made sense.
but I realised today that you didn't make sense. I don't actually think its a bad trait, I think its a good one. As it makes me have good work ethic because I want my boss to come in the next day and be overwhelmed with the job I did, to be pleased they hired me and to think I'm the best. It makes me not selfish with money because I want to make the people I care about happy so I buy them things I know they want. It makes me think about what I do or say when I'm around people's parents or people I don't know because I want them to think I'm a lovely person.
so how it me wanting to please people bad?